Relationships are Resource Hogs
Most people want to be in a good, healthy, long-term romantic relationship (LTR). I get it. I see the appeal. I’ve been in relationships like that, and I’ve enjoyed them — for a time. But a decade ago, I decided that I didn’t want to be a part of them anymore – not because I was “hurt,” not because something terrible happened, but because it didn’t seem worth the tradeoff. In the abstract, I want…